Are You Still Single?

Dr. Olusola Coker

Are You Still Single?

Dr. Olusola Coker
Are you still single?Guaranteed powerful Prayers to Locate Your Divine Spouse
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Introduction

Are you still single? And you are unhappy about it. Every day of the year; you keep on asking yourself some questions, when am I going to get married? Another day has dawned and here you are… single as the day you were born. Sure, no one needs someone else in order to be happy, but if we’re trying to be honest with ourselves, love, validation and some bedroom activities really do help. So maybe it’s time to stop crying into your pizza and wondering why, why, why you’re going to be alone with a bottle of red wine every Friday night from here to eternity. This book is specially prepared for you to get married as soon as possible especially if you are 30 years old and above.

There are also 800 prayer points designed to reveal your life partner to you. You will discover reasons you are yet unmarried and solutions to be in married club as soon as possible. Are you the type that you don’t like meeting new people? Do you always reject any proposal for a date? Do you assume or feel that all the good ones are all engaged? Are you always to yourself, self centered and you don’t believe in give and take? Are you a negative person? Are you the desperate type? If you find yourself in one or all of the above attitude, then you may not get married throughout the rest of your life.

Reasons You Are Still Single

Are you 30 years and above and you are still single? Does it ever seem like everybody else on the planet is happily paired off with a perfect partner except you? Don’t panic, this does not mean there’s anything “wrong” with you. Nonetheless, if you are still single please find below reasons you are still single

Scripture: Psalm 37:4: Seek your happiness in the Lord, and he will give you your heart's desire.

Isaiah 54:5: The Lord All-Powerful, the Holy God of Israel, rules all the earth. He is your Creator and husband, and he will rescue you.

You are too ambitious and want to do everything.

Are you the type that devotes all your time and attention to your work? Then you have to adjust if you want to get married. If you tend to concentrate on your work and neglect relationship part, you may not get married on time. A relationship is a big investment in time, energy, and emotion (if you’re doing it right). What good is a partner if you’re too busy to spend any time with them? Love and romance as a married couple is the best gift of life.

Scripture: Luke 1:45: The Lord has blessed you because you believed that he will keep his promise.

You Think You Should Wait…

Some people think they simply aren't worthy until they lose weight, amass a certain amount of money, etc. But there's no point in waiting, says Dr. Levine. Yes, no point in waiting because marriage is honorable in the sight of God. What are you waiting for, go out there, make friends, mix with people, appear neat and decent, start dating, this will help you find your life partner.

You value your independence.

The best couples understand that alone time isn’t just a nice thing to think about, but rather a necessity. Mentally strong people are not afraid of alone time. You can have a relationship and maintain your independence; but any relationship is going to require some level of compromise (starting with where to go on date-night, through to bigger things like living situations in the future). If you’re not ready for that level of commitment, or want to maintain full independence in your decision-making, that could be the reason you are still single.

You Play Hard to Get

Do you pretend to be busy when asked out? Pretend not to care when you really do? Playing hard to get makes it hard to find Mr./Ms. Right. In fact, it's likely to attract just the sort of person who will make you unhappy: someone who doesn't feel comfortable being close. Resolve to play soft; it will facilitate you locating your life partner

You Think Good Mates Are Scarce

Date infrequently and you'll inevitably invest a huge amount of emotional energy into each new prospect. That's a sure recipe for disappointment.

Better to meet lots of people and desensitize yourself to inevitable dating setbacks. Just go out there and date.

You need to figure yourself out.

If you’re going through a big life change—like going to a new school, starting a new job, living in a new city, or living a gorgeous and expensive life—that could be one of the reason you are still single. It is unwise to invite a new partner into your life if you have a lot of house-cleaning to do. Take your time while settling into your new situation: love will be waiting for you when you’re ready.

You can’t stop thinking about your previous disappointment.

Holding on to nasty feelings about your former flame will stop you from moving on with life. If you have emotional baggage left over from a previous relationship, let it go before jumping into a new one. Or maybe you still feel love for a person who doesn’t return the favor, then you need to relax and be watchful, maybe he or she might respond positively, definitely, don’t wait for too long.

Fear of commitment

Men fear commitment? Women are needy? Not necessarily. When it comes to relationships, people fall into one of three basic categories. "Secure" people are warm and loving and feel comfortable with intimacy. "Anxious" people seek closeness but worry their love won't be reciprocated. "Avoidant" people shun intimacy, valuing independence above all. And studies show most people are "secure."

Most men and women really do want a close, committed relationship and won't act overly needy or try to push you away.

You don’t know what you want.

You have to decide exactly what you want in a relationship. Your standards for what makes a person an “excellent” match will change as you mature. There could be times where you’re just plain confused about what you want in a partner, and that’s okay. It could help to go on a date with a few different types of people; you’ll come out with a general idea of what traits attract you to a person and be better able to choose a partner you can be happy with.

You are too fixed with your ex

Idealizing an old mate makes it hard to find a new one. Are you in a relationship you are not interested or not enjoying again or Not getting much out of it but unable to end it? Yes, breaking up can be hard, because the mind is under the control of age-old "attachment circuitry" that encourages you to stick with your mate. Once you realize this, you've taken your first step out toward ending a bad relationship and moving on.

You aren’t comfortable in your body.

A lack of confidence in yourself can reflect in how you present yourself (posture, thoughts, behaviors, everything). Be confident in your body because it’s a glorious thing capable of carrying you anywhere in the world. And besides, what you see in the mirror has more to do with how you perceive yourself than reality. Curvy, muscular, skinny, somewhere-in-between? It doesn’t matter. Run, lift weights, take a yoga class, or practice healthy habits if you’d like to lose weight and get fit. But love your body today, because you’re incredibly good-looking as you are. And being confident in the vessel you have will draw people to you—confidence is hot!

You already have someone in mind you are not intimate with.

Maybe you have an ideal mate or relationship in mind and are determined to find that and only that. If so, it might take a very long time. Getting stuck on "the one" is something "avoidant" people often do in order to keep true intimacy at bay. Instead of waiting for "the one,” change your mindset: Choose someone, allow him/her to get close, and make him/her special to you.

You are not a man or woman of your words; your action does not reflect your words

If you talk about how you’d “just love to meet somebody special,” but never actually put yourself in a position where you could meet that special someone, then you have no reason to wonder why you are still single. Your future partner isn’t going to magically appear before your eyes. If you want them, you have to go get them! Make a dating profile, go to a bar, or coffee house, or park, or even a book store. If you see someone who catches your eye, march right up to them and introduce yourself.

When you are use to E-Romance, getting married will be far from you.

Online romances just aren't the real deal. They may meet some of your attachment needs, but not in a real way. Even if you "graduate" from email to voice, that's not good enough.

You Fear Becoming Dependent

Some people avoid committed relationships because they worry they'll become dependent on their mate. They think people must retain their independence at all costs. This kind of relationship simply doesn't exist. We're all hard-wired to become dependent; the trick is to find the right person to depend on. When you are in true love, your dependent will not bother you.

You Think Love Conquers All

Certain red flags indicate you're dating someone with an "avoidant" attachment style – a person who is unlikely to make for a satisfying mate. Does he/she send you mixed signals? Tell you he/she needs a lot of space? Does he/she say or do things that make you feel like you represent some sort of "compromise?"

Maybe it's time to move on.

Single-and-ready-to-mingle but feeling nervous? Don’t be. You’ve got this. Remember: be confident!

Prayers to locate your God-ordained partner!

Finding your God given spouse has nothing to do with your looks, age or income. It’s good to have those things if you can but in the spiritual world they are of little or no significance.

In the book of Genesis 24:3-4 when it was time for Isaac to get married, Abraham sent his servant to his country with strict instruction to get a wife for his son.

He knew that God hated "unequal yoke" of marriage with unbelievers. Till today that is still the stand of God.

A misstep in this area can spell doom and gloom for an individual up to many generations, while the right choice can open the door to favor, bliss and something really close to heaven on earth… this side of eternity!

Scriptures: Matt 7:7: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:

Isa 54:17: No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is of me, saith the LORD.

Prayer points:

I thank you God because you alone are the perfect matchmaker and I believe you will help me locate my divine partner in the name of Jesus Christ.

O Lord, release to me the man/woman you have pre-ordained as my spouse in Jesus’ name.

Lord, cause it to happen that the divine match will come forth soon in the name of Jesus.

Lord, let my spouse be a person who loves you wholeheartedly in the name of Jesus.

Lord, establish our home according to the scriptures in Jesus name

Father, let all satanic barriers keeping us from meeting each other, be dissolved in Jesus’ name.

Lord, send forth your warring angels to battle and release my spouse wherever s/he is held captive in the name of Jesus.

Lord, I believe you have created me for a special person; bring him/her to pass in the name of Jesus.

I now call him/her out of obscurity into my life in Jesus’ name.

I reject the provision of counterfeit spouse for me by the enemy in the name of Jesus.

I cut off the flow of any inherited marital problems into my life in the mighty name of Jesus.

O Lord, let the spirit of patience reign in my life until my rightful life partner comes in the name of Jesus.

Household powers stopping me from meeting my life partner die in Jesus name.

You evil veil blocking my God-ordained life partner and I from noticing and attracting each other, catch fire and burn to ashes.

Every evil magnet mongering me and my God-ordained life partner stay away from each other, be shattered in Jesus´ name.

Every evil program for my marital destiny be deprogrammed in the name of Jesus!

You satanic match-makers, my marital destiny is not your candidate, scatter and die in Jesus´ name!

Witchcraft decree into my marital future, I nullify you by fire in the name of Jesus!

The Lord has assured me that he knows the plans for me to get married as soon as possible. O lord, manifest your life in my life.

O Lord, manifest your life in my ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.

30 Daily devotions that will attract your God given spouse with 800 prayer points: Daily Devotions: Day 1

Scripture: Matt 7:7: Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:

Prayers for my future spouse

Prayer points:

O Lord my father, let my future spouse be close to you, love you, walk with you, that he continues to grow spiritually and is prepared to be the spiritual head of a household, and that he/she makes God the top priority in his/her life.

O Lord, let my future spouse hear your voice and work according to your will.

O Lord, let my spouse emotional health be in good condition, that any past wounds be dealt with and healed.

O Lord, let my spouse physical health be sound in the name of Jesus Christ.

Pray for his career, his life’s work, that he be established in the field where God wants to use him and that he be wise with his resources.

Pray for his ministry—that he be sensitive to God’s call on his life when it comes to ministering to and serving others. Also, pray for God to prepare both of you for the ways you will minister together.

Pray for his preparation—that he yields to all that God’s potter’s hands would like to accomplish in him.

Pray for God to send any trials necessary into his life that will allow the preparation process to be complete. I realize that may be a bit controversial. Knowing how much God has accomplished in my life through trials, I would expect nothing less of my husband’s journey toward me.

As I am a woman I Pray for God to prepare my spouse to be a father, if the two of you will ultimately raise a family together.

O Lord, bless my future spouse tremendously to the level that he/she will be able to bless others in the name of Jesus Christ.

O Lord, let my spouse be a man/woman of integrity, have self-esteem and grow into the man/woman God wants him/her to be.

As a woman pray for your future spouse to not be distracted by any counterfeits—especially other women that God doesn’t intend to use for his growth.

As a woman pray for God to allow your future husband to see you the way God wants you to be seen, with God’s heart toward you.

If you are woman, pray for God to show you how to pray for your future husband. Be open to whatever His Spirit may whisper to you, to cover your husband’s needs. If you feel God gives you something specific, write it down and date it. Save it for later.

Daily Devotions: Day 2

Scripture: Psalm 84:11: For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.

Prayer points

You Household powers stopping me from meeting my life partner die in Jesus name.

You evil veil blocking my God-ordained life partner and I from noticing and attracting each other, catch fire and burn to ashes.

Evil magnet magnetizing me and my God-ordained life partner stay away from each other and be shattered in Jesus´ name.

Evil program for my marital destiny, be deprogrammed in the name of Jesus!

Satanic match-makers, my marital destiny is not your candidate, scatter and die in Jesus´ name!

Witchcraft decree into my marital future, I nullify you by fire in the name of Jesus!

Daily Devotions: Day 3

Scripture: Isa 54:17: No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is of me, saith the LORD.

Prayer points for Christian singles looking to find their God given spouse.

O Lord, I thank you for helping me locate my God given partner

O Lord, release the man/woman you have preordained as my spouse in Jesus’ name.

O Lord, let my divine match come forth soon in the name of Jesus.

O Lord, let my spouse be a person who loves You wholeheartedly and who will do your will in the name of Jesus.

O Lord, establish our home according to the scriptures in Jesus name (read Ephesians 5:20-28).

O Lord my Father, let all satanic barriers keeping me from meeting my divine spouse, be dissolved in Jesus’ name.

O Lord, send forth your warring angels to battle and release my spouse wherever she/he is in the name of Jesus.

O Lord, I believe You have created me for a special person; bring it to pass in the name of Jesus.

By the power in the blood of Jesus Christ, I call my spouse out of obscurity into my life in Jesus’ name.

By the power in the blood of Jesus Christ, I reject the provision of counterfeit spouse by the enemy in the name of Jesus.

O Lord my father let the spirit of patience reign in my life until the right person comes in the name of Jesus.

Daily Devotions: Day 4

Scripture: Proverbs 18 vs. 22

How God Reveal your life partner

God Organizes connections to reveal your spouse.

Who you will marry will not fall from heaven, that person is not so far from your circle of contact, God will take you to places that the man will find you, even if he does not notice you, He will keep on establishing the connection.

To discover Gods will you must be patient. He that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. To find something there must be a connection, for that man to find you, you have to make yourself available, that is go out to good places, be accommodating and hospitable.

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