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8. Ignoring the positive: We tend to focus on the negative and ignore the positive aspects of our lives, which can reduce our happiness levels.

9. Emotional response: The mind can push us to react to emotions instead of consciously considering the situation.

10. Beliefs based on fear: Beliefs that are formed on the basis of fear can limit our abilities and hinder our development.

Here is a detailed description of each 12-month smart work practice:

1 month: Mindfulness

Practice Mindfulness Meditation

Goal: Mindfulness meditation helps develop the ability to focus on the present moment, improve concentration, and reduce stress levels. It allows you to become more attentive to your thoughts and emotions, and learn to accept them without judgment.

Preparing for meditation

1. Choose a time and place: Find a quiet and peaceful place where you won’t be disturbed. It can be a corner in your home, a park or any other comfortable place. Set a time when you can give yourself 5—10 minutes without distractions.

2. Comfortable Posture: Sit in a comfortable position. You can sit on a straight-backed chair, cross-legged on the floor, or on a pillow. It is important that you are comfortable and can relax.

3. Close your eyes: Closing your eyes helps reduce visual distractions and focus on your inner senses.

The meditation process

1. Focus on your breath: Start your meditation by paying attention to your breath. Notice how the air enters and exits your body. You can focus on the sensation in your nose as air passes through, or the way your chest rises and falls.

2. Count your breaths: To help you focus, you can count your breaths. For example, count «one» on the inhale, «two» on the next inhale, and so on up to ten. If you reach ten, start again with one.

3. Watch your thoughts: As you meditate, your thoughts may start to wander. This is completely normal. When you notice that your attention is moving away from the breath, gently and without judgment bring it back. Recognize that thoughts are coming, but don’t dwell on them.

4. Gradual completion: After 5—10 minutes of meditation, gradually return to the world around you. Open your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Allow yourself to feel your body and mind refreshed.

Tips for successful Meditation

– Regularity: Try to meditate at the same time every day. This will help you build a habit and make your practice more effective.

– Be patient: Don’t expect instant results. Mindfulness is a skill that takes time and practice to develop.

– Use apps or recordings: If you find it difficult to meditate on your own, try using apps or audio recordings with guided meditation.

Goal: Develop the ability to notice your thoughts and emotions without judgment. This will help you become more aware in your daily life and reduce your stress levels.

Mindfulness Meditation Practice Test (1 month)

The purpose of the test is to evaluate the understanding and application of mindfulness meditation practice, as well as to identify the level of awareness and ability to focus on the present moment.

Questions:

1. What is mindfulness meditation?

– A) A way to forget about your problems

– B) Practice that helps you focus on the present moment and accept your thoughts and emotions without judgment

– C) A technique that allows you to achieve deep sleep

2. What is the best time and place to meditate?

– A) Noisy cafe

– B) A quiet and peaceful place where you will not be disturbed

– C) A place with bright lighting and lots of distractions

3. What position is recommended to take during meditation?

– A) Lie on the couch

– B) Sit in a comfortable position with a straight back

– C) Stand on one leg

4. What should I do with my eyes during meditation?

– A) Look at the surrounding objects

– B) Close your eyes to reduce visual distractions

– C) Look at the clock to keep track of the time

5. How can you focus on your breath during meditation?

– A) Ignore breathing

– B) Count breaths, for example, «one» on the inhale, «two» on the next

– C) Breathe very fast

6. What should you do if your thoughts start to wander during meditation?

– A) Ignore them

– B) Return attention to the breath, gently and without judgment

– C) Try to stop thoughts at all costs

7. What advice will help you practice meditation?

– A) Meditate only according to your mood

– B) Meditate regularly at the same time

– C) Don’t meditate if you can’t do it the first time

8. What is the ultimate goal of mindfulness meditation practice?

– A) Become the perfect person

– B) Develop the ability to notice your thoughts and emotions without judgment

– C) Learn to control thoughts and emotions

Responses:

1. B2. B3. B4. B5. B6. B7. B8. B

Rating:

– 8 correct answers: Excellent! You have a good understanding of the practice of mindfulness meditation.

– 6—7 correct answers: Good! You have a good idea, but it is worth to deepen your knowledge.

– 4—5 correct answers: Satisfactory. It is recommended to repeat the material and practice.

– Less than 4 correct answers: More attention should be paid to the practice and theory of mindfulness meditation.

Practice meditation regularly and watch your progress!

2 month: Keeping a diary

Let’s take a closer look at how to keep a diary of thoughts and feelings, as well as what benefits it can bring.

1. Set aside some time

– Set a schedule: Find a convenient time during the day when you can calmly focus on your thoughts. It can be in the morning, when you just wake up, or in the evening, before going to bed.

– Create a ritual: Turn this activity into a ritual. For example, make a cup of tea or coffee, find a cozy place and tune in to a positive mood.

2. Be honest

– Do not hesitate: Write down everything that comes to mind, even if it seems insignificant or ridiculous. This is your personal diary, and no one will see it.

– Allow yourself to be vulnerable: Express your true feelings, even if they are negative. This will help you release your repressed emotions.

3. Use questions to direct your thoughts

– Structured Questions: Start with simple questions to direct your notes. For example:

– «What made me happy today?»

– «What’s upsetting me?»

– «How do I feel today and why?»

– What can I do to improve my mood?»

– Thinking about the future: Ask yourself questions about what you want to achieve and how you can do it. For example: «What are my goals for the coming months?»

4. Pay attention to recurring themes

– Regular review: Review your notes periodically (for example, once a week or month). Pay attention to emotions and events that are often repeated.

– Analyze: Try to understand why certain topics or feelings arise over and over again. This can help you identify triggers and issues that need attention.

5. Don’t limit yourself

– A variety of formats: Use not only text, but also drawings, diagrams, collages, or even photos. This can make the process more fun and creative.

– Emotional Scales: Try to draw a scale of your emotions or use color codes for different feelings. This will help you visualize your emotional state.

6. The benefits of keeping a diary

– Improved Self-awareness: By recording your thoughts and feelings, you better understand yourself and your reactions to different situations.

– Stress Reduction: Expressing emotions on paper can help reduce stress and anxiety levels.

– Develop Problem-solving skills: By analyzing your notes, you can find new ways to solve problems and improve your life.

– Increased emotional Intelligence: You will learn to better recognize and manage your emotions, which will have a positive impact on your relationships with others.

– Goal: To deepen your understanding of your internal processes. This will help you become more aware of your reactions and identify triggers.

Test for keeping a diary of thoughts and feelings (2 months)

The purpose of the test is to assess the understanding and application of diary keeping techniques, as well as to identify the level of awareness of your thoughts and emotions.

Questions:

1. When is the best time to set aside time for keeping a diary?

– A) At any time when there is a free minute

– B) At certain times when you can calmly focus on your thoughts

– C) Only on weekends

2. What ritual can I create before writing in my diary?

– A) Listen to loud music

– B) Brew a cup of tea or coffee and find a cozy place

– C) Immediately start writing without distractions

3. Why is it important to be honest in your notes?

– A) To show off to others

– B) To get rid of repressed emotions and express real feelings

– C) To record only positive moments

4. What questions can help you direct your thoughts when recording?

– A) «What day of the week is today?»

– B) «What made me happy today?» and «What upset me?»

– C) «What am I going to do tomorrow?»

5. What approach is recommended for analyzing your records?

– A) Ignore recurring topics

– B) Regularly review recordings and analyze emotions and events

– C) Write down only new thoughts and do not go back to past recordings

6. How can you diversify the format of keeping a diary?

– A) Use only text

– B) Add drawings, diagrams, collages or photos

– C) Write only in one style

7. What are the benefits of keeping a diary?

– A) Improved self-awareness and reduced stress

– B) Increasing the number of negative thoughts

– C) Reduced emotional intelligence

8. What is the main purpose of keeping a diary?

– A) Deepen your understanding of your internal processes and identify triggers

– B) Show others how you live

– C) Record only positive moments

Responses:

1. B2. B3. B4. B5. B6. B7. A8. A

Rating:

– 8 correct answers: Excellent! You are well aware of how to keep a diary and what benefits it brings.

– 6—7 correct answers: Good! You have a good idea, but it is worth to deepen your knowledge.

– 4—5 correct answers: Satisfactory. It is recommended to repeat the material and practice.

– Less than 4 correct answers: You need to pay more attention to the practice of keeping a diary and understand its benefits.

Keep a diary and keep track of your progress!

3 month: Acceptance

Practicing accepting your emotions and thoughts is an important step toward emotional health and self-awareness. Let’s take a closer look at how to do this and what benefits it can bring.

1. What is emotional acceptance?

Accepting emotions means being aware of and acknowledging your feelings without trying to suppress or change them. This does not mean that you should enjoy negative emotions, but it is important to allow yourself to experience them and understand that they have a right to exist.

2. How to practice accepting your emotions?

Steps for accepting emotions:

– Notice your emotions: Try to be attentive to what you are feeling at the moment. This can be sadness, anxiety, joy, or anger.

– Acknowledge your feelings: When you realize that you are experiencing a certain emotion, tell yourself: «I feel sad» or «I feel anxious.» This will help you become aware of your feelings and not repress them.

Don’t judge yourself: Allow yourself to feel without judgment. All emotions are a natural part of the human experience, and you have the right to experience them.

– Watch your emotions: Try to observe your feelings as if you are looking at them from the outside. Ask yourself questions like «What triggers this emotion?» or «How does it feel in my body?» This will help you better understand your feelings.

– Give yourself time: Allow yourself to experience the emotion. Do not rush to get distracted or try to change your state. Sometimes you just need to give yourself time to feel and let go.

3. How to deal with difficult emotions?

– Deep Breathing practice: If you feel strong emotions, try taking a few deep breaths in and out. This will help you calm down and focus on your feelings.

– Diary entry: Write down your thoughts and feelings. This can help you express how you feel and better understand your emotions.

– Talk to someone: Talk to a friend or professional about how you feel. Sometimes simply discussing your emotions can make them easier to understand.

4. The benefits of Practicing Emotional Acceptance

– Stress Reduction: Accepting your emotions can help reduce your stress and anxiety levels, as you don’t waste energy suppressing your feelings.

– Improved self-awareness: This practice promotes a better understanding of yourself and your reactions, which can help you deal with difficult situations in the future.

– Emotional Resilience: Accepting emotions helps you develop resilience to stress and difficulties, as you learn to accept and relive any feelings.

– Better Relationships: When you accept your emotions, you become more open and sincere in your relationships with others, which can improve communication with those around you.

– Goal: To learn to be more tolerant of yourself and your experiences. This will help you reduce the level of internal conflict and increase emotional stability.

Emotion Acceptance Test (3 months)

The purpose of the test is to assess the understanding and application of the practice of accepting your emotions and thoughts, as well as to identify the level of awareness of your feelings.

Questions:

1. What does accepting emotions mean?

– A) Ignoring negative emotions

– B) Being aware of and acknowledging your feelings without trying to suppress or change them

– C) Try to change your emotions to positive ones

2. What is the first step in the practice of accepting emotions?

– A) Notice your emotions

– B) Immediately try to change your feelings

– C) Ignore your emotions

3. Why is it important not to judge yourself for your feelings?

– A) To avoid responsibility for their actions

– B) All emotions are a natural part of the human experience, and you have the right to experience them

– C) So that others don’t think badly of you

4. How can you monitor your emotions?

– A) Comparing your feelings with those of other people

– B) Asking yourself questions about what causes these emotions and how they are felt in the body

– C) Trying to hide them from yourself

5. What method can help with strong emotions?

– A) Ignore them

– B) Practice deep breathing

– C) Immediately get distracted by something else

6. How can writing in a diary help you accept emotions?

– A) It allows you to forget about your feelings

– B) This can help you express how you feel and better understand your emotions.

– C) The diary entry is irrelevant

7. What are the benefits of practicing emotional acceptance?

– A) Reduce stress and improve self-awareness

– B) Increased internal conflict

– C) Reduced emotional resilience

8. What is the main purpose of the practice of accepting emotions?

– A) Learn to ignore your feelings

– B) Learn to be more tolerant of yourself and your experiences

– C) Show others how you handle your emotions

Responses:

1. B2. A3. B4. B5. B6. B7. A8. B

Rating:

– 8 correct answers: Excellent! You are well aware of how to accept your emotions and what benefits it brings.

– 6—7 correct answers: Good! You have a good idea, but it is worth to deepen your knowledge.

– 4—5 correct answers: Satisfactory. It is recommended to repeat the material and practice.

– Less than 4 correct answers: You need to pay more attention to the practice of accepting emotions and understanding its benefits.

Keep working on accepting your emotions and watch your progress!

4 month: Comparison

This is a great practice! Not comparing yourself to others can significantly improve your well-being and self-confidence. Keeping a list of your achievements helps you realize how much you’ve already accomplished and focus on your own progress. Even small successes matter and can be the basis for big changes in the future.

Here are some additional tips for developing this practice:

1. Regular recordings: Take time once a week or month to record your achievements. This can be either in written form or in audio recordings.

2. Positive Affirmations: Start your day with positive affirmations about yourself and your abilities.

3. Visualization: Create a collage or visualization board where you place images and words that inspire you and reflect your achievements.

4. Supportive Environment: Connect with people who support and inspire you. This will help you focus on your goals.

– Goal: Eliminate feelings of inferiority. This will help you appreciate your unique qualities and the path you are following.

Comparison Practice Test (4 months)

The purpose of the test is to evaluate the understanding and application of the practice of not comparing yourself to others to increase confidence and well-being.

Questions:

1. Why is not comparing yourself to others important?

– A) It helps to improve your well-being and self-confidence

– B) It doesn’t matter

– C) This leads to more stress

2. What actions can help you realize your achievements?

– A) Record your achievements

– B) Compare yourself with others

– C) Ignore your progress

3. How often is it recommended to record your achievements?

– A) Every day

– B) Once a week or a month

– C) Never

4. What are positive affirmations?

– A) Negative thoughts about yourself

– B) Positive statements about yourself and your abilities

– C) Comparing yourself to others

5. How can visualization help you avoid comparison?

– A) It distracts from reality

– B) Creating a collage or visualization board helps you focus on your achievements and inspiration

– C) It doesn’t matter

6. Why is it important to communicate with supportive people?

– A) To compare their achievements with theirs

– B) To focus on your goals and get inspired

– C) To avoid communicating with others

7. What is the main purpose of the practice of avoiding comparison?

– A) Eliminate feelings of inferiority

– B) Understand that you should always be better than others

– C) Learn to ignore your feelings

8. How can small successes affect your life?

– A) They don’t matter

– B) They can be the basis for big changes in the future

– C) They distract from serious goals

Responses:

1. A2. A3. B4. B5. B6. B7. A8. B

Rating:

– 8 correct answers: Excellent! You are well aware of how avoiding comparison can improve your well-being and confidence.

– 6—7 correct answers: Good! You have a good idea, but it is worth to deepen your knowledge.

– 4—5 correct answers: Satisfactory. It is recommended to repeat the material and practice.

– Less than 4 correct answers: More attention should be paid to the practice of avoiding comparison and understanding its benefits.

Keep developing this practice and you will see how it will positively affect your life!

Month 5: Dealing with fears

This is a great way to deal with your fears and anxieties! Let’s see how you can approach this exercise.

1. Write down your fears: Start by listing all your fears. These can be both big and small fears. For example:

– Fear of losing your job.

– Fear of failure in your personal life.

– Fear of public speaking.

2. Analyze each fear :

– What’s the worst that can happen?»: Think about the most negative outcome. For example, if you are afraid of losing your job, the worst-case scenario may be that you will be left without income.

– How can I handle this?»: Consider possible solutions. For example, if you lose your job, you can start looking for a new one, update your resume, or ask your friends for help.

3. Write an action plan :

– Identify specific steps. For example:

– If I lose my job:

1. Update your resume.

2. Start sending resumes to your company.

3. Contact your professional contacts.

4. Consider temporary part-time jobs.

5. Create a financial cushion for 3—6 months.

4. Repeat for each fear: Do the same for all your fears. This will help you see that many of them have a solution and reduce your anxiety level.

5. Review regularly: Go back to your list and plans to adapt them as needed.

– Goal: To understand and reduce the impact of fear on your life. This will help you become bolder and more confident in your actions.

Fear Management Test (5 months)

The goal of the test is to evaluate your understanding and application of techniques for dealing with fears and anxieties to increase confidence and courage.

Questions:

1. What should I do first to deal with my fears?

– A) Ignore them

– B) Write down your fears

– C) Compare your fears with others

2. What question should you ask yourself when analyzing fear?

– A) Why am I so afraid?

– B) What’s the worst that can happen?

– C) How will it affect others?

3. What action is recommended if you are afraid of losing your job?

– A) Expect nothing to happen

– B) Start looking for a new job and update your resume

– C) Do nothing

4. What is an action plan for dealing with fears?

– A) Wish List

– B) Specific steps to address the problem

– C) A list of all fears without a solution

5. Why is it important to regularly review your fears and plans?

– A) To remember them

– B) To adapt the plans as needed

– C) It doesn’t matter

6. How can dealing with fears affect your life?

– A) Increases the alarm level

– B) Helps you become more bold and confident in your actions

– C) Does not affect life

7. Which of the following fears is not an example that can be written down?

– A) Fear of public speaking

– B) Fear of losing your job

– C) Fear of success in life

8. What to do if you find that you don’t have a solution for some fear?

– A) Accept it as an immutable fact

– B) Seek help or support

– C) Ignore it

Responses:

1. B2. B3. B4. B5. B6. B7. C8. B

Rating:

– 8 correct answers: Excellent! You have a great understanding of how to deal with your fears and reduce their impact on your life.

– 6—7 correct answers: Good! You have a good idea, but it is worth to deepen your knowledge.

– 4—5 correct answers: Satisfactory. It is recommended to repeat the material and practice.

– Less than 4 correct answers: You need to pay more attention to working with fears and understanding its benefits.

Keep using these methods and you will notice how the fears lose their power!

Month 6: Perfectionism

This is a great way to deal with your fears and anxieties! Let’s see how you can approach this exercise.

1. Write down your fears: Start by listing all your fears. These can be both big and small fears. For example:

– Fear of losing your job.

– Fear of failure in your personal life.

– Fear of public speaking.

2. Analyze each fear :

– What’s the worst that can happen?»: Think about the most negative outcome. For example, if you are afraid of losing your job, the worst-case scenario may be that you will be left without income.

– How can I handle this?»: Consider possible solutions. For example, if you lose your job, you can start looking for a new one, update your resume, or ask your friends for help.

3. Write an action plan :

– Identify specific steps. For example:

– If I lose my job:

1. Update your resume.